This is a regular feature in my leadership seminar. Based on
the principle that you CANNOT NOT COMMUNICATE, think what message you want to
communicate to the people around you. So you can decide what impression you
want to make on to others and you will find that others then respond
differently to you. You have a better chance to achieve what you want to achieve,
even build up your self-confidence.
Example - Always display confident positive disposition (e.g. steady
eye contact, leaning forward, making positive, and constructive contribution to
a discussion, being engaged and interested; if you have concerns, bring those
up much later only after a good rapport is established. People around you will
respect (and like) you more. Want to work with you.
Can’t do it or think it doesn’t work? Think again, because
you have done it already. Think about your last job interview or when you went
for your first date to ‘woo’ the other person. See – It worked at least a few
times.
Just keep going. Every interaction with another person is a
window of opportunity to create an impression and then build on this. And take
this with a smile, the dating was an example. I am not suggesting keeping on
dating after you found the ‘right one’.
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