Think

Think about three people whom you highly respect professionally?

Write down their names and a few key words why you hold them in high regard.

Now imagine that each one would have observed you the whole of last month and they will now give you some advice on how to do your job. (Or, if you like to, how to lead your life) What would they say?

Any difference?

Another approach. Whenever you have to make a critical decision ask yourself: "How would my role-model go about this?" There is a good chance that this question would provide some more possible solutions.

If facing ethical questions "What would my mother say about this?" is a good one.